The Relationship vs. Outcome Dichotomy

In life, we often find ourselves at a crossroads where we must decide what takes precedence: the relationship or the outcome. This dilemma is particularly relevant in various aspects of our lives, from personal relationships to professional interactions. It boils down to whether we prioritize the journey (the relationship, process, or integrity) or the destination […]

Wondering about Infidelity

Infidelity is a topic that often brings a sense of discomfort and unease. Yet, it’s a reality that many relationships face at some point. To truly address this issue, we must dig deeper into its roots. Why does infidelity happen? One key factor that often leads to infidelity is a lack of trust and the […]

Consideration Mismatch

My first problem that surfaces in a lot of my relationships is that conflict that comes from my interest in having things done the right way. My primary interest in getting things done is efficient, effective and conservative. A lot of times I notice others don’t put the care and consideration that I would like […]