Unveiling the Art of Non-Defensive Communication
Conflicts with colleagues can be difficult in the complex web of human relationships. Usually, our instinct is to become defensive due to the fear of being attacked. However, what if we changed our mindset and assumed that others are simply protecting their own viewpoints instead of assuming ill intentions? This change in perspective can be revolutionary, enabling genuine communication without the need for defensiveness.
The Metaphor: Defensive Patterns Compared to the Green Ooze of Unresolved Trauma.
When it comes to personal development, it is essential to confront unresolved trauma that remains hidden. Think about carrying a symbolic green substance that is sticky and spreads to everything it touches. This green substance symbolizes wounds that have not been healed, which show themselves through defensive responses. Similar to the saying about a tree falling in the forest, the effects of trauma only matter when acknowledged and actively dealt with.
Comparing Coaching and Psychology in the Quest for Effective Techniques.
The effectiveness of traditional psychology, which is often criticized for its limitations, is being questioned in terms of its ability to provide practical methods for healing. This section examines the distinction between psychologists and coaches, emphasizing the greater flexibility coaches have in providing a variety of techniques to address particular problems. Should we now contemplate reevaluating the traditional therapy approach and adopting a more interactive and versatile model?
In your relationships, how do you handle conflicts? Do you believe that being curious is more effective than being defensive? Please share your thoughts and personal experiences in the comments.